DSF

mrs maggot;42095 wrote:wow, perhaps she is very unwell, my husband has suffered from severe depression for several years, he went out to work every day and came home in the evening, how did i find out about it ?? i was putting some clothes away and found bills and papers, and invoices - his answer to me when i asked him "i thought i could cope, but it all got too much for me" its taken him nearly 2 years to get over it, and he still has his moments, but now the post is shared, and the bills are paid, i did a crash course in dealing with companies who money was owed to, and the inland revenue etc.
. it always amazes me that people who can be "so in love" and for a lot of years, can just throw everything away, when perhaps what the person needed was a lifeline.

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she is very well....this has happened before, and i said...everyone deserves a seconds chance....and she done the same thing again 4 yr later...as in over the last wk....
she has a gambling addiction which i dismissed, but to my own pearl


and just to state - i have nothing against other woman...they are not all tarred with the same stick...just that i personally, will never be able to trust another woman in my lifetime....and that hurts me more than anything....
but i,m big enough ( excuse the pun) to take it on the chin and move on.....again !

this is a great little forum with sensible adults, who can hold an adult conversation when need be.....


johnny
ps...and i never said we were so in love....we ended up more like best friends, for some strange reason.....maybe it had run its course

well at least it all makes more sense now, she has an addiction. hopefully she will get herself sorted, and you will be able to move on. Try direct debits in future - cheaper & better than trust sometimes lol

Good luck, and i am sure you will meet someone new, i kissed a few frogs (and was married to one for 14yrs) before my prince finally came along, when i thought i would never meet someone.

mrs maggot;42107 wrote:well at least it all makes more sense now, she has an addiction. hopefully she will get herself sorted, and you will be able to move on. Try direct debits in future - cheaper & better than trust sometimes lol

Good luck, and i am sure you will meet someone new, i kissed a few frogs (and was married to one for 14yrs) before my prince finally came along, when i thought i would never meet someone.

Yuk,,,I wouldn't fancy someone who goes around kissing frogs.....hehe

mrs maggot;42107 wrote:and i am sure you will meet someone new.

er....thats the last thing i want to do lol......stick to making money for the next yr

I know just what you mean Johnny as I had a girlfriend a long time ago who had a drug problem & took me for a few thousand. I had no idea she was a serious drug addict until I saw here buying her drugs on a back street that I just happend to be driving past one night. Myself, her family & friends all tried to get her to get help but, she just wasn't interested at all. It broke my heart to have to tell her goodbye but, it was the best thing to do otherwise she would have taken everything I had. There are times when you have to use your head rather than your heart. Good luck mate & hope everything works out for you soon.

bigj2552;42119 wrote:er....thats the last thing i want to do lol......stick to making money for the next yr

ha - no meet one when you are poor, then you have nothing to loose, and everything to gain lol

I think you have more chance meeting the right lass than making any money in this economic climate

John G;42144 wrote:I think you have more chance meeting the right lass than making any money in this economic climate

i concurr with the great JG

John G;42144 wrote:I think you have more chance meeting the right lass than making any money in this economic climate

rolls about laughing.......where i stay john, better chance of winning the lottery than finding a "nice lass" as you say ......
and as for doing any sales in this town....if its over a quid, they aint intrested..

better chance of winning the lottery

I'm moving to where you live then - haven't won a penny for years on the lottery.