...............................................................................mrs maggot;42095 wrote:wow, perhaps she is very unwell, my husband has suffered from severe depression for several years, he went out to work every day and came home in the evening, how did i find out about it ?? i was putting some clothes away and found bills and papers, and invoices - his answer to me when i asked him "i thought i could cope, but it all got too much for me" its taken him nearly 2 years to get over it, and he still has his moments, but now the post is shared, and the bills are paid, i did a crash course in dealing with companies who money was owed to, and the inland revenue etc.
. it always amazes me that people who can be "so in love" and for a lot of years, can just throw everything away, when perhaps what the person needed was a lifeline.
she is very well....this has happened before, and i said...everyone deserves a seconds chance....and she done the same thing again 4 yr later...as in over the last wk....
she has a gambling addiction which i dismissed, but to my own pearl
and just to state - i have nothing against other woman...they are not all tarred with the same stick...just that i personally, will never be able to trust another woman in my lifetime....and that hurts me more than anything....
but i,m big enough ( excuse the pun) to take it on the chin and move on.....again !
this is a great little forum with sensible adults, who can hold an adult conversation when need be.....
johnny
ps...and i never said we were so in love....we ended up more like best friends, for some strange reason.....maybe it had run its course
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